Ellery Thomas

Willard

Ellery Thomas "Tom" Willard Sr., 85, of Wakefield, RI, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, October 20, 2026, at his home.

Tom graduated in 1959 from Bethlehem Central High School, where he distinguished himself as a gifted athlete in football, basketball and track and field. He went on to attend Colgate University and proudly served in the Army National Guard.

Born and raised in upstate NY, he was the son of Dorothy (Smith) and Ellery Donald Willard. He lived a life defined by creativity, ingenuity and determination. Whether imagining a better way to do something or pursuing a new idea, he embraced life with enthusiasm and confidence, and inspired others to do the same. He held numerous patents that took him around the world and reflected the curiosity and resourcefulness that characterized his life. While his work brought him international opportunities, his greatest pride and joy derived from family and friendships.

Tom and his first wife, Cindy, also the mother of his children, created a home in Johnstown, NY, filled with independence, curiosity, laughter, and encouragement. His sons remember him as country strong, a dreamer, creative thinker, and unapologetic individualist, never afraid to take risks or follow his own path. Tom and Cindy shared over thirty-four years of marriage before Cindy's passing in August 2000, at age 56.

Canada Lake NY held a special place in Tom's heart. A summer resident for decades, he devoted countless hours to maintaining and improving the family camp he loved. Days were spent tackling projects around camp, while evenings often included leisurely cocktail cruises with family and friends. Always a fan of the North Woods, Tom ultimately winterized the camp and made it his full time home.

Tom later found love and happiness again with his second wife, Allison Dwyer. They lived most of their married life in Hilton Head SC, where Tom worked as lock operator for Windmill Harbour Marina, the perfect retirement job for gregarious, convivial Tom.

A dog lover throughout his life, Tom treasured the friendships he formed at local dog parks, where his warm personality and genuine interest in others made lasting connections. He was a gifted conversationalist, quick with a story, endlessly curious about the people and the world around him, and known for a hearty laugh that could brighten any gathering. His humor, willingness to listen and steadfast support through life's challenges were so appreciated. He will be greatly missed and fondly remembered by all who knew and loved him.

Tom is survived by his beloved wife, Allison, and his dog, Marcus, whose companionship brought him great comfort and joy. He is also survived by his cherished sons and their families; Ellery Thomas "Tim" Willard, Jr. and his wife Carolyn, William Franklyn "Bill" Willard, and Richard Simms "Rich" Willard and his wife Leigh; and his seven precious grandchildren, Garrett, Will, Jes, Clementine, Simms, Beckett, and Eason.

Arrangements are in the care of Avery-Storti Funeral Home, 88 Columbia Street, Wakefield, RI 02879. In accordance with his wishes, Tom was cremated. His remains will be returned to Canada Lake NY, a place he loved deeply and where his memory will forever remain connected to the family and community that meant so much to him.